Why We All Need a Mental Health Day

When I left one of my jobs, I left with $15,000 worth of sick leave accrued (unfortunately not paid out). Yes – that’s a lot of sick leave not taken over a 10 year period.

Back then, my attitude was that if you weren’t ready to be admitted to hospital you packed your tissues and Panadol and took your germs or headache to work. Taking a day off because I felt mentally fatigued would have been unheard of! Telephoning work and saying “Sorry won’t be in today I’m feeling a little mentally fatigued” would not have been well received.

Why We Need A Mental Health Day

Now that I am older (not too old) and hopefully a little wiser, I can see how pushing myself and not wanting to let anyone down was detrimental to my wellbeing. To be honest, in hindsight, I’m not even sure struggling into work was worth it or appreciated by my employer.

Life is full of struggles for all of us. Even though we hear how hectic it is living in today’s society, our parents and previous generations had struggles of their own during their lifetime – that is just life. It is the way we deal with things that life throws at us that matters.

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Fortunately, some employers today are more mindful of their employees’ welfare and taking a ‘Mental Health Day’ is not so frowned upon. There are still employers who need to recognize this, however the change is happening, if at a slower pace than we would like. It isn’t just employees in the workforce who need Mental Health Days, employers and those who work for themselves need to take them too.

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If you don’t work and are retired or a stay-at-home mum or dad, life is still hectic, you still feel mentally fatigued. Just because you aren’t going out to work for your employment each day, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take a mental health day.

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Make Time for ‘Me Time’

We all become mentally fatigued and if you are feeling low or stressed and feel the need to ‘step out of the world’ for one day – do it and don’t feel guilty! I actually like to call these days my ‘Me Time’ days.

  • Watch a movie
  • read a book
  • listen to music
  • go for a walk
  • have a coffee with a friend
  • catch up on sleep.

It doesn’t matter what you do as long as it is something that will nurture you and make you feel relaxed and happy in the moment.

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At this point, I know you are thinking – “It’s okay for her to suggest this but I can’t afford to take time off work” or “who will look after the kids”. “I can’t afford the time” was my mantra until I discovered, much to my surprise, that the world kept turning – with or without me. Yes, my pride took a hit but that is the reality.

Don’t be afraid to ask friends or family to take the kids for a day. 

You can do a ‘deal’ with friends who have children and offer to mind their children for a day in return.  There is always a way if you really want to do it.

So next time you are feeling a little overwhelmed with life, take a day for yourself and indulge. You will feel so much better for it.

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Important Note:  Of course, if you feel this way constantly it may be more serious and you should seek medical advice or at least talk to someone about it. You owe it to yourself and your loved ones.

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29 thoughts on “Why We All Need a Mental Health Day

  1. Barb Knowles

    I just read your post via your comment on the Meet and Greet. I look forward to continue reading and sharing with you. I’m 61 and oddly peaking professionally just now. I hope that you check my blog out, too. I love your article on mental health days…..So true!

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    1. sue Post author

      Hello Barb!!! Thank you for the comments I will definitely check out your blog. I’m glad you enjoyed my article. Speak soon!

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  2. McKenzie

    Very insightful! I often get asked to work on Sundays, to which I swiftly reply, “Sorry, that’s my mental health day.” I wish more people would adopt your advice… the world would be a much more stress-free place. The business will always survive a day without you. 🙂

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    1. sue Post author

      Thank you McKenzie! Yes it is hard not to I was so guilty of over committing so I’ve learned from experience. Thank you for taking the time to comment and have a lovely day!

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  3. Debbie Rodrigues

    I had a very good relationship with my previous bosses and for the few days that I needed it, they never complained about me arriving a little later or something like that. I do not feel comfortable to do the same in my present position though.
    We force ourselves too much when we are young. I wish I had been wiser.
    Great post, Sue!

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    1. sue Post author

      Yes the attitude of the company is very important. When I worked they would not have tolerated a ‘Mental health Day’. You sometimes just need a day to do nothing but recharge. Unfortunately, wisdom only comes with age – thanks for commenting I appreciate it.

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  4. Terri Webster Schrandt

    This is another fabulous post, Sue. Sorry I’m so late getting to these. I can’t believe you had that many hours of sick leave and did not get paid out. Fortunately, I did when I retired, but good ole Uncle Sam took a fat chunk. I think Australia and Canada and European countries are so much farther ahead of the US in this and in leisure education. Luckily, I worked for a public leisure organization and when stress got to me, my boss understood when I just needed to leave early.
    As a side note, I am amazed at how much we are alike in our blogs and our Sizzlin Toward Sixty attitude 🙂
    Terri

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    1. sue Post author

      It is hard to keep up replying to posts on link ups I know. Yes we do have similar attitudes that is why I enjoy your posts so much.

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  5. Amy

    Yes! I’m the worst at this! I wake up every morning, excited about the work that is before me. But I do try to take time off on Sundays. “Sabbath” means “Stop.” And when I do take a good break on the Sabbath, I always return to my work rested and refreshed on Monday.

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    1. sue Post author

      Well I think having a Stop day is great Amy. At least you wake up with enthusiasm which unfortunately a lot of people don’t. Thanks for commenting and enjoy your’Sabbath’

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  6. Amy

    I used to do so many extra hours at work and never take any sick days. But all of that changed when I had my son. I started to realize the more time I spend at work, the less time I have with my family. Everyone needs a Mental Health Day once in a while. Thanks for sharing. #ConfessionsLinkUp

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    1. sue Post author

      Yes having a family soon changes things. Make sure you enjoy every moment with them and thanks for commenting again.

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  7. Chantal

    Great post! I thinking taking a mental health day is far more accepted in today’s society, that being said I feel that some still believe there is a stigma attached. This is a perfect post to talk about the issues and remind people that they need to care for themselves first! Thanks for joining the Link-It To Me Link Party, I hope you will party with us again next week!

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    1. sue Post author

      Hi Chantal I’m glad you liked the post. You are right that we still feel a little guilty if we want to take one but we do need to look after ourselves. I’ll see you next week!

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  8. Corinne Rodrigues

    Ah that makes me feel so much better, Sue. My Dad often made me feel guilty for taking a day off once in two months or so, just to relax. Somehow, he thought it was a disloyal thing to do when I was technically not ill!
    Now I work for myself and am happy to give myself a break once in a way!

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    1. sue Post author

      Well I used to go to work at all costs, Corinne however now I am older I see that it was self-imposed. We certainly need a day occasionally to recharge. Thanks for commenting and see you at #FridayReflections bext next week

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  9. Mackenzie Glanville (reflectionsfromme.com)

    I love this post because it is just so important to look after ourselves mentally as much as we can. I burnt out last year because I never looked after me, I got to a point where I found it almost impossible to cope. I now know that looking after me makes me a better mum, wife , daughter etc. I had heard it said but didn’t believe it until I learnt the hard way. Thanks Sue xx

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    1. sue Post author

      Yes you have to experience it all and then you can try to pull back on unnecessary things in life. It is healthy to have ‘a day off’ occasionally apart from the weekends. Thanks Mackenzie for commenting and your great linkup at #FridayReflections

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  10. Lela

    This is such a great article. I sometimes forget to take time for myself and this story is a nice reminder that mental health days really are important for one’s well being. Thanks for sharing at Inspiration Thursday! Hope to see you next week!

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    1. sue Post author

      Thank you Lela! Yes sometimes we need others to remind us to look after oneself. Thanks for stopping by and see you next Thursday.

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  11. Janine

    Great article. I used to be the same, thus the number of times I have burnt out. Im so glad I am more willing to look after my mental health these days. I think some people are still learning that it is not a selfish act, but rather one that helps you handle life, all it has to give, as well as to be there for our loved ones in a better mindset.

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  12. Jayni

    Thank you for sharing this! I can remember the one time I took a “Mental Health Day.” I was using some sick time for a doctor’s appointment, and left the appointment finding out the real gender of my baby. My brain was in shock that after 5 weeks of being told I was having, and making plans, for a girl, I was going to be blessed with a baby boy. I called work to use up a whole sick day because I just couldn’t focus on anything else!

    And I’ve also seen the benefits of taking a mental health day, especially as a SAHM. I’ve found that when my husband and I can get a sitter and spend some time together, we come back much more relaxed and better parents.

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    1. sue Post author

      My pleasure Jayni and thanks for stopping by. It is very important to your relationship and to your child that you take time out. You are correct when you say after time with just the two of you, you come back more relaxed and of course better parents for it.

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  13. Jebbica

    I totally agree, Sue! What do you like to do on your mental health days? Sometimes I just like to stay home and watch TV and veg. But I think I should really take a day sometime where I do a bunch of kiddie things, like mini golf or going to the arcade! It really does improve job performance to have a little time off sometimes.

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    1. sue Post author

      Well I like to just spend some quiet time at home with a good book, or like you TV. Just a veg-out where I don’t have to be anywhere at any particular time. I love those days. You are right about job performance if you are feeling refreshed you are more productive. Thanks for the comment.

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  14. cathy

    I love the job I have now, more laid back and supportive, especially with what I am going through right now with my health. I find that taking “me” days helps me to be a healthier person, more able to help others.

    (I too left a job years ago with over 300 hours of sick time accumulated. Because I was never sick, or more accurately, rarely took time off for any reason.)

    Good post!

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    1. sue Post author

      That is how I feel now. I didn’t always feel that way and would ‘soldier on’ but now I realize that didn’t do anyone any good especially me. Thanks for the comment and talk soon.

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  15. Mandi

    As a nurse, mental health says aren’t really an option. I definitely can’t call in unless I’m actually ill. However, I wholeheartedly support this for others and, in fact, I allow my kids to choose one mental health day off school per year. Mental health and rest are very important.

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    1. Sue Loncaric Post author

      Nurses are so important to us all and probably not valued enough Mandi. Thanks for stopping by and at least you are preparing your children with ways to cope with the stresses of life.

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